Love can be seen as a natural event that occurs freely and without limitations. In this sense, love is not regulated and is not a rigid ideal. Love is seen as natural in the love match situation mentioned above. Love is natural even when no one forces you to love another individual. You love freely when there is no one to tell you who you should or should not date, when no one tries to force their beliefs about what love is on you, and when you simply let yourself be carried away by someone else's company . There are many examples that can be used to clarify when love is not natural. I don't think love is natural in an arranged marriage or in a case where your friend tries to set you up with someone. You haven't experienced the encounter and are more or less forced to meet (or marry) someone you weren't initially attracted to. If someone else has to convince you to be with someone, they are doing the work for you. The beauty of love is that you should be free to choose who you love. Make your own decisions about the type of partner you want, the type of person best suited to you; if an individual were to decide these factors for you, you will miss out on the ability to come to your own conclusions about a person and know for yourself whether they are right for you. Even love is not natural if you listen to other people's comments. For example, let's say I met a friendly person, but my mother, who I care about a lot, tells me I should find a man who has a higher-paying job or a less witty man. If my mother's opinion were to exceed my opinion in importance, and if I were to please my mother by finding someone else, then the way I perceive love would no longer be a natural process where I am attracted to whoever I want to be. Love has now turned into me “loving” a person that only my mother approves of. In this scenario, I allowed