When we fall down in love sometimes we don't know why we did it. There are plenty of strange reasons why we fall in love and explanations for how and why we do it. First, it seems strange that it can take two to four minutes to figure out if you love someone, or if your feelings emerge in that moment. There. You love someone mainly for three things; his body language, the way he talks, and what he specifically says to you. There are three stages of love. These stages are lust, attraction and attachment. Lust is obviously driven by hormones and testosterone (Lee Ann Obringer). Of course, if someone seems sexually attractive, you may have feelings for them. Attraction happens when you have nothing else in mind but this person (Lee Ann Obringer). Every morning you wake up they are the first thing you think about (Lee Ann Obringer). Perhaps attachment is much more of an abyss than love. Early love, I'd say. When you're tied up, you don't just want a quick relationship, but a relationship that really lasts a long time. One where you can have children, raise them together (Lee Ann Obringer) and watch them raise their children while you lie in your decrepit bed with wrinkles on 99.9% of your body, barely able to move and holding hands smiling and watching to the beautiful creatures your tree helped create, playing together and enjoying life. Attachment is something that most couples want, but can't have. Oxytocin is a hormone released by women and men who reach orgasm. This can deepen the feelings between the two. The more sex a couple has, the more their feelings and bonds are drawn towards each other (Lee Ann Obringer. Vasopressin is a hormone that is released after sex. Every time you have sex with..... . middle of paper. .....a person's personality, then sitting down to talk to them is the moment you can fall in love. If you really care about looks, then you can fall in love at first sight. especially not knowing what type of personality that person has. Love is an intense feeling of deep attraction. The bottom line is that we fall in love depending on how our brain works at that moment, if the person satisfies our needs. , if you have sex. with them it is possible to fall in love, and if they entered your life and lit it up while you were going through a state of depression or stress. The conclusion of this is that these are the main points of why people fall in love, how they fall in love, what hormones are released during relationships and sex, what happens in our brain and, of course, what love is. Works Cited Why We Fall in Love