Topic > The Abandoned Father: The Characteristics of a Finished Man...

They in no way deserve this and have done nothing to cause their situation. “It is they (the innocent victims of the idlers, the children) who carry with them the biological inheritance of the guilty parent and who suffer the effects of poverty, abandonment and discontinuity with their personal history”. (Hatcher) The effects of children growing up without a father are extremely evident. If you know they have a single mom you can almost automatically choose at least one of the traits mentioned. These kids suffer from one of these issues: anxiety, abandonment issues, anger, self-esteem, self-isolation, poverty and stress. A child growing up without a father or father figure can cause several problems for the child throughout his or her life. As children they may act strangely in class and show signs of anger. As they grow and understand the situation more, the child may develop anger issues and show signs of abandonment in their relationships. In adulthood the son may have difficulty marrying due to the fear of being like his father or of being abandoned by someone he should love forever once again. “The absence of the father is pathological and seriously affects the abandoned child's capacity for self-esteem and intimacy.”