““Well, they were right. You're fat and disgusting!” The therapist announced. Patricia was sobbing, her eyes were red and her nose was running...“Come on... let's go. We won't stand for it!” his father... opened the door and let the family in. The therapist simply observed and nothing more was heard from him… [His nervous breakdown] was the result of long-term bullying which led to an episode in which he was kicked out of school by a gang of boys. They threatened to kill her with a crowbar, sticks and wooden planks. He felt like a hunted fox” (shazwellyn.hubpages.com). No matter how hard a parent tries to help their child, whether they are being bullied or are the bully themselves, the consequences should not fall on the people who raise them because the victims must do what they can to make up for what they have done . they did or what they suffered. The city of Monona, Wisconsin has proposed a new law that fines and fines parents who fail to respond appropriately to their children's poor behavior. A behavioral and personal change counseling specialist, Michael Harmann, hypothesized that bullying behavior is typically an attempt to hide the bully's vulnerability. It's a primitive mentality that wants to make you pay when you show vulnerability, and since bullying mostly occurs under the legal age, suffice it to say that the highest levels of authority have no control over the thoughts and actions that bullies use as an outlet to their pain because it goes against the Constitution. The key to helping the children we feel so sorry for is to heal the bully before he turns into a monster, and the only way to help the perpetrator is to make him face his motivation to bully. “If you think about it, a great strategy to avoid being rejected is to reject everyone… middle of paper… people hear about a child who commits suicide because of bullying, they think about how devastating it must have been for him/her , but it never seems to cross one's mind that bullies should also have a say so that their side of the story can be heard. It's hard to believe, but many bullies have been victims themselves or have had to deal with personal issues that make them feel the need to use this defense mechanism that sticks the knife further and deeper into what was happening to them. No matter the reason, everyone deserves to be forgiven, accepted by society, and treated more fairly according to standards we don't understand. We must therefore give everyone flexibility in their choices. Let them experience bullying, let them decide for themselves what is right and what is wrong, and let them choose on their own terms what they have learned if change is even a good thing.