I think about how I have overcome situations of hatred or high tension with my friends and family and how well I have managed to get my points across. I am naturally a feisty girl at times when it comes to insubordinate behavior or attitudes, or easily annoyed if you prefer. But people also witnessed my honesty, my growing ability to maintain decency in difficult times. I'm not afraid to lay down the law on how I feel and how I feel things should be. But I learned how to convey my opinion to people in an understandable way. I started to achieve that attitude that I want for myself and my loved ones started to notice it too. Being able to overcome my personal adversity is therefore the biggest defeat of my life